Advice for Relationships - We Could All Use It, But Will We?
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When our relationships are going the way we want them too, many of us don’t want advice for relationships, possible because we like the feeling we are having in the moment and don’t want to screw it up. In other words we ignore the process of life and that is everything has a beginning, middle and an end.
If we were to “face the process of living” we could learn strategies of the heart that would teach us how to have a happy relationship.
Questions to ask yourself: • Do you have the relationships that you want? • Is my relationship as happy as I want it to be? • Is my relationship as healthy as I want it to be? • Do I have all the skills to make my relationship a success? • Where can I get the skills to help my heart be happy in relationship? • How is my relationship with myself? • Are my relationships as good as they can be? • Do my relationships move through stress easily?
If the answer to any of these questions is anything but "No", consider deeply that you COULD BENEFIT from what we are discussing on this page, Advice for Relationships. Please realize that you are always going to be some degree of happy, healthy, wealthy, etc., but do you realize how much more you could be if someone gave you a few pointers? That's the value of accepting advice for relationships.
As my Uncle Jerry used to say the purpose of relationships is a test of the emergency broadcasting system (otherwise known as your emotions). Our emotions are where our internal reality (called illusion) overlaps actuality (often termed reality).
Relationships are the perfect place to learn to accept, face and use ALL of our emotions in the most useful ways. Because of the ups and downs of relationships they all have a sense of bi-polar relationships .
When we say ALL we include the negative ones as well.
There are skills one can learn that releases the trapped energy behind a negative emotion such as anger, hate, or fear and allows you to use that energy to build stronger relationships. You gain different perspectives which move the relationship deeper instead of staying on the same level.
This is very useful because you as an individual do not stay on the same level. As a human being you grow and become a deeper person even without being aware of it.
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