Example of One to One Relationship
So You Want a Happy Relationship…

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This is probably the hardest and heaviest example of one to one relationship that must be handled, conquered or integrated before any other relationship(s) has a change of success.

If this example of one to one relationship is under your control then any relationship one to one, one to two or one to many, etc… will also be under your control and you will be happier in your relationships and I am suggesting happiness in ALL of your relationships. Isn’t that what you want also?

The example of one to one relationship I am referring to is the relationship of what we say lining up in relationship with the actions we take. In other words when our actions and our words line up they are in relational alignment and we get the goals that we are going for.

I know it sounds easy and it is, easier than we think. So let’s go through this a little bit deeper to learn a way we can get our words and actions to line up. Words and actions are what happen outside and what makes them show up outside is based on what we think and what we feel on the inside.

(In this example of one to one relationship I’m using feeling here in the vernacular sense of emoting. “I feel happy” in its’ real meaning is “I am emoting happiness”, but most of us when we are emotion-ing simply say “I feel ____.”)

The Key to understanding this example of one to one relationship and how to use it to our advantage is realizing that any desire that is expressed in thought has two possible meanings. An example could be the thought of “I want a good relationship”, by the very nature of the “Law of Duality” (relativity), has two possible emotions or feeling associated to it, a feeling of a good relationship or a feeling of lack of a good relationship.

From this we can follow the bouncing ball of logic or karma or sowing and reaping or cause and effect and realize that for our words and actions to line up our thoughts and our feeling must line up first or else we will get the opposite actions of our words which will produce the opposition of what we want and I’m could be guessing here but I suspect we are wanting a happy relationship, right?

Not only in this example of one to one relationship but in all of life, the thought creates, but the feeling (emotion) determines the real meaning of the thought and manifest, brings to pass, the creation of our thought. So it is a very useful concept to get our feelings in line with the thoughts we say we want and not in alignment with what we don’t want.

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Here is a simple way:

We have all heard of a GPS (Global Positioning System) and some of us even have it in our cars. Did you know you have a UPS (Universal Positioning System) right inside you? You thought it was what was telling you what reality really is when it was just telling you your position and where to go to get what you really want. That’s right your emotions are your UPS and now here is how to use your UPS.

Divide your emotions in half, those that “feel good” and those that "feel bad”. All emotions fall into these two categories anyway, so let’s use them. Cognitive Psychology says we feel the way we do because of the thoughts we are thinking at the time. When you “feel bad” ask what thought could I think that would feel better? Repeat this process until you “feel good”. You can repeat this until you feel fantastic if you choose.

So by monitoring how you feel moment by moment you can begin the process of lining your words and your actions up. How is that for an example of a one to one relationship?

It may take some extra work to be able to use your emotions/feelings as a guidance system instead of the way we usually use them as “what we think is really true”. That is why you may want to “Contact the Doc” for a FREE 15 minute evaluation to make this example of one to one relationship work for you.

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