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Part of the reason there is such anxiety and worry over the subject of "men relationship commitment" is because there are two sides involved, the men, the women and the expectations that each man and each woman has in regards to relationship. Both of the set of expectations are fueled by emotions and usually these emotions are fueled by self-talk that is outside of the individuals awareness. In “some” cases a woman may desire a committed relationship on one level and on another she may be afraid, despise, or not want a relationship because of any number of reasons…
A fascinating concept is that “most” men also have these same reasons on a higher level than their desire for a committed relationship. So the dance of "men relationship commitment" goes on and on. The amazing thing is we blame each other. The women blame the men and the men blame the women and then we get our friends to join in. We see some committed relationships and we wonder if we will ever have one our self’s. Some of us even feel we won’t be complete with out one and then we go back to blaming everyone and may be ourselves but we don’t take any action to clear out our emotions and get control so we can get what we want. The answer to getting a man’s or a woman’s self talk working in a way where the dance of men-relationship-commitment is no longer a problem is getting control over our emotions and the self-talk that goes with it. It requires personal work so we can have a personal life. For further help on specific men relationship commitment issues you can contact me directly for a FREE 15 minute consultation or to hear my voice and for more information on how to develop some of the skills that are very useful in any relationship click here.
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