"Coming From Your Head or Your Heart! "
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Issue #39 Quick Quality Info
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COMING FROM YOUR HEAD OR YOUR HEART!
Recently in my being a part and responding to some emails on some newsgroups, I was told that if I told my personal experiences instead of that of clients people it would have a better effect on the group. I didn't know they wanted to know if I was coming from my head or my heart. They actually said the following…
“Show us one of your own personal emotional or physical problems, and what that was, and what it did, and how it has changed things for you. Describe in detail what you were struggling with, how it bothered you, what kinds of behavior you had, and don't now, what you did about it, and how things are that much better. And show how it is that much better with personal examples, in short use your tangible “I” as an example.
Give us, or at least me, something to emulate.”
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Well, I did that and much more and instead of emulating me or actually using the tools I suggested, I got responses like…
“It was great to hear you come from your heart for a brief moment instead of from your head when you spoke of your personal experience. It made you real' for once where we could actually connect with you. Then you lost me again by going back into your head. But it was great to meet that part of you that is vulnerable and just a person like the rest of us. It would bereally nice to get to know more of that person. How did it feel for you revealing him?”
and from someone else…
“What I find remarkable is that you don't seem to understand what it means to "be in your head" versus just being a guy. I do not mean this to be an attack on you, but rather how I see why we do not connect and won't ever. I do not think as the kids say, "you get it."
My response was when you are attempting to live the highest vision you have ever had of yourself you are doing more than comimg from your head or your heart, you come from your belly where your heart and your head integrates. To me that is being a true guy or gal and it is remarkable that that is not understandable.
And bleeding all over the place (psychological speak for telling how bad you had it and the ole’ “woe is me” story) does nothing in solving the problem. It is neither coming from your head or your heart, especially with all the tools we have now-a-days that work content free.
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