The Victim Role in Relationships
And How to Change It

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The victim role in relationships is one of the roles human beings take on. The question that comes to mind is how do we use or change any role, victim or villain to make it easier to get what it is we want, whether that is happiness, security, acceptance, etc… What is the victim role in relationships?

What is it we really want in our relationships and how does the roles we play effect whether or not we get them is a question worth considering.

• What can you do about changing that role?
• Which role are you playing victim or villain?
• Are you always playing the victim role?
• What are the advantages of playing the roles (Victim or villain) we play

I suspect no one really likes to play the victim or the villain role in relationships. We fall into the roles we use because at one time they got us a result we wanted. The problem is after we used the strategy of a particular role for a while it becomes an unconscious pattern. Then it is like walking, talking or breathing, we think it is us.

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It is kind of like a red light or a green light we are responding to but we are not even aware we are responding to it. So this pattern runs our relationships and since we no longer have control over it we label it and take it on as a role. If you are reading this article I suspect you find yourself in the victim role way more often than the villain role. It becomes a vicious cycle.

Until we become aware that it is a role we are playing and just a role, we have very little chance of getting out of it or changing it to a more useful role of cooperation and mutual benefit for all parties in the relationship. This applies to all types of relationships, intimate, family, personal, boss/manger relationships, career, hobbies, etc…

That is why on our Advice for Relationships page we have a link to the 1st chapter of a training manual called “Lover’s Leap, A Training Manual for Happy Relationships” that has tools and techniques to change the victim role in relationships while at the same time teaching you the strategies to start and develop better relationship roles (intimate, personal or business) on a good solid foundation

To find out about specific one-on-one help to get out of the victim role in relationships contact me directly for a FREE 15 minute consultation or to hear my voice and for more information on how to develop some of the skills that are very useful in any relationship to achieve your potential click here. skills that are very useful in any relationship to achieve your potential click here.




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